Dear DoubleTake,I have been in a relationship with a man for about two years now, and I fear I am wasting my time. He has three kids by three other women, and he's only been married once.I guess my question is, am I wasting my time? He is a good man but is very selfish.I also have a son by him, which makes four children for him. He hasn't mentioned anything about being marriage. He did ask us to live with him, but to me that's still not good enough.He's never bought me jewelry, which to me symbolizes how special a person is. I'm not sure if this makes sense, but I really don't feel this man cares for me like he should or even plans on making a future with me.What do you think?

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